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For
Whom the Bell Tolls
© 2002 Boaz Rauchwerger
Its a sunny Sunday morning in the
lovely ancient city of Salzburg at the foot of the Alps. An
early morning walk around town reveals that the people here
take their Sundays seriously. Hardly anyone is out and about.
Its a nice departure from what were used to in
the States, where every day of the week seems as busy as the
next.
The quiet atmosphere is gently interrupted
by the tolling of the bell from the clock tower of an ancient
nearby church. Seven bells to delineate the current hour.
No one moves. People arent rushing out of their homes.
Cars arent heading for the freeways. Just a bell tolling
as it has for hundreds of years.
Theres a single bell at the quarter
hour, two at the half-hour and three bells at forty-five minutes
past the hour. You can almost hear the echo from the bell
as its ring bounces off the nearby forested cliffs.
As this Sunday evolves, the small cafes
that line Linzer Gasse come to life. This ancient narrow street,
named after the city of Linz in Austria, is a wonderful combination
of small shops, quaint old hotels, cafes and the church with
the bell tower. At the south end of the street is the Salzach
River, which meanders through the middle of Salzburg.
The locals who frequent the outdoor cafes
on Linzer Gasse seem to understand the pace that is set by
the bells in the tower. They often gather with friends, and
new acquaintances they make along the street, to drink coffee
or a beer, to talk, and to laugh. They dont appear to
be in a hurry on this lovely Sunday. They listen intently
to each other. They freely greet people walking by. They are
really in the moment.
So, as I take in this peaceful Sunday scene
on Linzer Gasse, and hear the ringing of the bell, Im
wondering how we can translate this atmosphere into our everyday
lives? Do we really have to rush around as much as we do?
Do we really have to turn so many things into stressful deadlines?
The next time you see your schedule full
of more activities than you desire, let a bell toll in your
mind. Let that bell remind you that life is short. Let that
bell ask you if everything you have scheduled is absolutely
necessary.
May that bell be a wake up call to get
you off the merry-go-round and onto a more peaceful and fulfilling
life. Prioritize your life and do the most important things
first and quickly.
I used to live a very stressful life. I
have now learned theres a better way. I used to run
a large company in a line of work that was not my passion.
Due to circumstances beyond my control, every day was incredibly
stressful there. I finally asked myself, why am I doing
this? I finally decided that whatever potential gain
was not worth the emotional price I was paying.
Thus, I started taking steps (small ones
at first) to get back to my lifes passion writing,
high performance coaching and professional speaking. Now my
life is much more peaceful and much more successful.
If youve gotten yourself into the
trap of supporting a certain lifestyle through an occupation
that is stressful and unfulfilling, CHANGE! If you only had
six months to live, would you change? If the answer is YES,
then you must do so NOW!
While you transition, do you need to live
in as fancy a house, drive a fancy car, spend lavishly on
entertainment? Why not lower your overhead and raise your
contentment. I know it can be done. Ive done it and
so can you!
Learn to say NO to some of the demands
others make of you. Focus on being a good, kind, loving person,
husband or wife, parent or friend. However, control your time
rather than letting it control you.
There are only a certain number of mornings
left in your life in which youll have the opportunity
to hear the bell toll. Only a certain number of days to spend
the way you desire. The people in the cafes on Linzer Gasse
in Salzburg, as they hear the bell toll, have just given you
a wake up call.
An Affirmation that
Rings a Bell
Im now making every day count. Im
pursuing what I really want to do.
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