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Whale Done! Very Whale
Done!
© 2003 Boaz Rauchwerger
So, you like to
swim? What if I put you in a very large pool and told you
that, in just a moment, you’re going to be shot out
of the water? Not through a cannon, but off the nose of that
huge animal coming up behind you under the water. That’s
a five-ton killer whale. You’re going to put your feet
on the nose of that whale and it’s going to propel you
into the air.
You say you’re not ready to take that
leap of faith? Please keep in mind that there is actually
a lot to learn from whales. I learned all about them and what
they have in common with people at work, spouses and kids
in a marvelous new book by Ken Blanchard called "Whale
Done!"
Ken is a top business consultant and best-selling
author of such books as "Raving Fans"
and "The One Minute Manager." Ken
and his co-authors from SeaWorld have created a moving and
inspirational book, which explains that both whales and people
perform better when you accentuate the positive.
"Whale Done!"
shows how you can supercharge your effectiveness at work and
at home by using the same techniques used by animal trainers
that work with the killer whales at SeaWorld.
Longtime readers of this column will recognize
a number of the key elements presented in "Whale
Done!" because they form the foundation of the
ideas we discuss on a regular basis. Ken found that the huge
killer whales, among the most feared predators in the ocean,
perform amazing acrobatic leaps and dives because their trainers
have built trust with the animals, accentuated the
positive, and redirected negative behavior.
Whether you manage a handful of people,
a large department, or simply trying to improve your closest
relationships, the concepts presented in "Whale
Done!" would serve you well: building
trust, accentuating the positive, and redirecting negative
behavior.
Ken states, in the introduction to
the book, “For years I had been talking and writing
about the power of positive relationships and the need to
catch people doing things right in order to develop productive
work and home environments. And yet I’d become discouraged
to see that the very opposite was occurring in most organizations
and homes: catching people doing things wrong seemed to be
the rule.”
“I was firmly convinced,”
continues Ken, “that punishment was harmful in human
relationships, and I realized instinctively that it wouldn’t
be a smart move with killer whales.”
How many times have all of us been guilty
of rushing to judgment, of leaning toward punishment when
dealing with others? Looking for the good, and disregarding
the bad as much as possible, is a much more productive direction
to take.
Ken takes this concept one step further
in "Whale Done!" He states, “I
was particularly fascinated by the ability of SeaWorld trainers
to use redirection. Upon encountering any undesirable behaviors
on the whales’ part, they would immediately
refocus those energies elsewhere. That very simple
but powerful strategy permits the trainers to set up new situations
to catch the whales doing something right.”
“Everybody knows that accentuating
the positive works best,” Ken continues. “But
what do you do when somebody does something that has a negative
impact? That’s where Chuck (Chuck Tompkins, head trainer
at the Orlando SeaWorld) and the SeaWorld trainers opened
my eyes. Instead of focusing energy, as most of us do, on
what went wrong, they redirect that energy toward
a positive outcome. When Chuck and I realized that
the combination of redirection and accentuating the positive
could make a major difference in work and family relationships,
we began talking about writing a book together that would
show how to apply these concepts.”
One of the SeaWorld trainers states the
following in the book: “An important concept
to remember is that the more attention you pay to a behavior,
the more it will be repeated. We’ve learned
from the killer whales that when we don’t pay a lot
of attention to what they do wrong, but instead give lots
of attention to what they do right, they do the right thing
more often.”
In a further clarification, the trainer
says, “We don’t accentuate the positive just to
get the animals to perform, though. We do it because it’s
the right thing to do. We treat our animals as individuals,
each of which has unlimited capacities for development and
accomplishment.”
The book states that many of us, when it
comes to dealing with other people, do things backwards: “We
focus our attention on poor performance rather than on good
performance. In the process, we reinforce the very behavior
we don’t want!” The book describes two drastically
different approaches: The word GOTcha means catching
people doing things wrong, while the words WHALE DONE! mean
catching people doing things right.
I agree with these powerful concepts. My
version of the above is this: whatever the mind focuses on,
expands. So, as this wonderful book expresses so well, be
careful what you focus on. I highly recommend "WHALE
DONE!" For more information about the book,
or the entire "WHALE DONE!"
program, go to www.kenblanchard.com.
This book is not just "WHALE
DONE!" It’s Very "WHALE DONE!"
A Daily Affirmation
of Approval
I always look for opportunities to
praise others.
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